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I found this heplful information online:

Displacement Activities

  • Work out (squats seem popular with many nofappers).

  • Do yoga or stretching.

  • Groom yourself (shower, trim fingernails, shave, floss, brush teeth, use tongue scraper, wash your clothes, etc.).

  • Get squeeze balls for your hands (squeeze the squeeze ball and not your genitals).

  • Go for a walk.

  • Read a book instead of surfing the web.

  • Hang out with people.

  • Join a club (or clubs).

  • Clean the house/apartment/room.

  • Fix something around the house.

  • Start a chore that you have been putting off.

  • Learn something new (a language, a musical instrument, cooking, solve a Rubik's cube etc).

  • 2 minute time out.

Avoidance Techniques

  • Delete your porn folder, delete your porn links.

  • Install a porn blocker (no more looking at sexy pics).

  • No edging, period. Touch yourself only when cleaning your body or urinating (see squeeze ball above).

  • Stay in public places.

  • Stay off the computer or phone except for a dedicated task like banking, work, school work, email, texting, checking nofap, checking the news, etc. and then log out.

  • If you are surging stay off the computer or phone completely.

  • Do not mindlessly surf the web because you will eventually click on a trigger.

  • Wear thick pants with a belt.

  • Go to bed only when you are about to sleep.

  • Get out of bed immediately after waking.

  • Beer, wine, liquor and pot: avoid these until you have solid control of your fappy impulses.

Mental Motivation

  • Remember why you are doing this.

  • Acquiring that strong sense of self-pride and being able to look people in the eye.

  • There will never be a day when fapping to porn will leave you happy and fulfilled.

  • Remember how shitty you feel right after you fap.

  • Remember that as your pleasure centres rewire you will start enjoying the experiences of your life more vividly.

  • If you fap then you are training yourself to be mediocre.

  • If you fap then prepare to lose your manliness.

  • When you fap then your sex life is watching other people have sex. This trains your brain to be a beta male.

  • If you fap you will numb yourself to your life and you will never have a hope of completing yourself.

  • A fraction of the women in porn are leading abused lives. You don 't want to contribute to the harm of another person.

  • Porn and fapping makes you look at woman in the wrong ways. You don't want to be that guy.

  • People can sense you are a beta male when you fap. They know.

  • When you don't fap you will become more alpha. Alpha doesn't mean aggressive douchebag, I know buddhist monks and lay meditators who are very alpha and very good people at the same time.

  • Don't do nofap to get a women in your bed, do it for yourself.

  • Remember that if if you don't have ED you will eventually get it.

  • Remember that if you have ED then nofap will cure it (if there are no underlying medical issues).

  • You will have the freedom of not worrying about your browser history.

  • You will have the freedom of not having that second, hidden, fappy personality.

  • You will have a more sensitive and normal genital response (i.e. no more death grip/death schlick syndrome).

Improve Your Commitment

  • Acknowledge to yourself that you have a problem, an addiction even.

  • Make a public commitment to stop fapping (for most of us this is an anonymous but public commitment like here on nofap, for some it could be a trusted buddy or your SO).

  • if you have an accountability partner, call or text them when you are surging.

  • Mark out your nofap days on a calendar ('x' out each day with a coloured marker, if you relapse then 'x' out each subsequent day of your new streak using a different coloured marker). It doesn't have to be paper, I use my iPad calendar for example.

  • ... but remember that every day is Day 1 no matter how high your counter is.

  • Also post your progress on nofap every so often. Post daily if you are going through a rough patch.

  • "Low fap" does not work, cold turkey is the best way to go.

  • Go to nofap and help others.

  • Meditation.

  • Identify your triggers (stress, anxiety, boredom, some kind of perceived failure) and realize that a fap session will not help.

Tricks of Last Resort

  • Cold showers.

  • For some, cold showers are too traumatic. If so, then wash your unit with a cold face cloth until the urge passes. Some fapstronauts have suggested that washing your face in cold water may also work.

  • If you are not doing hard mode then get your woman or man to "relieve" your tension.

This post is only about Phase I of nofap. Phase II of nofap is about living for purpose, not pleasure.

Finally

  • Fall down. Get up.

  • Fall down. Get up.

  • Fall down. Get up.

  • Fall down. Get up.

  • Fall down. Get up. Stay up. Help others.

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